Before I answer that question, I am going to have to ask you another simpler question first. How could men who have never had a physical skirmish with a woman ever think any different? With men being bombarded with messages about their physical superiority to women what else could they think? If they receive nothing but a steady stream of this kind of non-sense, there is no doubt that generation after generation of men will mature into adult men who think one thing and one thing only. They believe they are physically superior to women any day of the week.

These heavily indoctrinated/brainwashed men will go through life believing one thing and one thing only. That any man can take any woman he wants. So that is the mindset we live with. That, and the lack of overcoming the inertia that sets in when humans are older and don’t want to upset the applecart they are riding along in.  And I guarantee that some women reading this will still have some doubts that they can even learn martial arts no matter how much I tell them that they can master all of this. So, for me, this is all I can do in this work that I am doing with training the entire world of females.

All I can do is to send this message out to the world and hope that women, at least some women, suspect that they have been sold a bill of goods by our entire culture.  Worse, is that women who look at this won’t take a small chance and see if they can learn something for themselves. The alternative for women who do not take me up on this offering is pretty bleak to say the least. Of course, women live in a world where they not only have doubts about their abilities to do martial arts but also have feelings that they have done nothing to learn how to protect themselves and the result is that they feel they are the ones who are having to pull the heavy load of all that training and time spent doing things that they really are not interested in. While those feelings are quite real and easy to understand, its where we, as a world are at and the result is that if women are going to be safe 24 hours a day, seven days a week, its going to take some kind of physical martial arts training, to make that happen. I recommend that until a better system comes along that makes it easier for you to learn beginner level martial arts, which is what I am offering you, is your personal answer to your problem. I say that because the alternative is trekking to a karate school that most certainly will not cater 100% to women and girls. The school you will find will not care about you the way that I do, especially if we are talking bout the first few years of training. All in all, I believe that I am your teacher and that is exactly what I want to be. I want to train you for the next three years at least.

When men grow up and see other men fighting in hand-to-hand combat what do they see? Do they see two women fighting each other? Do they see a man and a woman street fighting? Generally speaking in my life I have never witnessed a woman fighting with a man until I saw Cynthia Rothrocks’s movies. She was a revelation to me to say the least. She did what I know women can do and I finally started full-steam-ahead with teaching women as a career in 1990.  I listened to the women I taught and learned how they were more concerned about their personal image than they were about knowing how to protect themselves. That was a real wake up for me, because she was teaching girls what a woman could do. Granted it was a movie and nothing more, but still the impression was clear to see and understand. Cynthia portrayed a woman who was never afraid of a bad guy and never backed down from an opportunity to protect her self. The reason that I bring this up is that there is still a great shortage of women who perform in the movies who can keep up with or beat the men in a staged TV or movie fight. How all this ties in with why do men think they are invincible against women. Given that I have watched hundreds if not thousands of movies and TV programs and California USA  based (at the time) Cynthia Rothrock was the first women I have ever seen that I had seen who could do such a great job of fighting with men. I recommend you look her up on Google and see what it takes to watch all her movies if possible. But the real point I want you to understand is the power of movies and TV programs do have a power over minds of all ages to make them believe that men can always dominate any women they want to, whenever they want to.

There is a huge propaganda machine that cranks out the same old message all over the world with one central theme: men can dominate and control all women wherever they meet them.  In a nutshell, these kinds of men believing they are superior fighters to any woman anywhere they make contact with them are like lambs to the slaughterhouse because think that there is no need to protect themselves because they have been mentally coached and trained by the patriarchy of course to not fear what a woman could do to them. These attackers of course, make ten mistakes when they attack any trained or untrained woman or girl, and the first mistake (a violation of a Rule Of War) they all make is the biggest one of all: KNOW YOUR ENEMY BETTER THAN HE KNOWS HIMSELF.  

I am training you right now to realize and fully understand that mistake in their strategy of selecting a complete unknown female who very easily could have been training for years in the martial arts and from her outer appearance does not give any indication that she would be a male stopper: a battle ready opponent for any male attacker.  To say the least, this is a gigantic and critical mistake to make and they don’t even realize that they are making the same mistake every time they leave their home to find a woman to rape and murder.  Lambs to the slaughter, nothing more or less.

Now, imagine living in a world where women and girls could do martial arts as easy as they could breathe and that it was no problem at all to perform that training at and with the slightest provocation. Now focus on this thought: all  you saw was these kinds of movies and TV programs 24/7 and never anything about men as warriors and men as conquers of everything they saw. I will bet you can’t believe that world like that ever existed, but it sure did.

Look up the matriarchal age and see what you can learn. Men and women were treated as equals with neither one dominating the other. There was a power balance between the sexes like we do not have now. Why do I write all this about women as warriors and the matriarchy and all that I have written about women being strong and powerful once they start to study martial arts? Why do I do all this? It is because I have seen women in combat and I have seen women do amazing things with their art and I want that for you. But there is a bigger reason in deed. The bigger reason is that I am convinced that it is women in positions of power and control that can save planet earth and make it paradise on earth for all human beings and not just the rich white men who do what they want to do to our earth.

What’s that? I believe that we are doing an unbelievable amount of harm to the planet and I do not see or listen to anybody being in charge of our world but men. Men who are chasing the almighty dollar, without thinking a thought about the sacredness of mother earth. Men all over the world hold down the position of President or Premier or Dictator for life. Whatever the country except, for Germany and New Zealand, its men who are in control.

If girls had directed at them a wide and deep layer of that life shaping patriarchal message that said they can overcome the physical imbalance of size and strength that currently exists today, by becoming proficient at any form of martial arts they chose to master, then we would see a world full of women and girls who could not be raped or murdered! Let me repeat that one more time: “could not be raped or murdered”. Then we would learn what’s what for sure.

I want to help bring to life a different generation of empowered women and girls who learn from me this system and take it and use it for positive good, world wide. Wherever a man is leading a country, women can do a better job.

good case in point is the Prime Minister of New Zealand, Ms. Jacinda Ardern. She runs a very tight ship especially during the Coronavirus/Covid 19 pandemic and her political decisions are putting the world to shame when it comes to beating the virus and as we say in Texas “it ain’t bragging, if you done it”. Ms. Ardern “put a whipping” on Covid 19 and she continues to do so to this day.  She put her people’s welfare first! She had the guts and brains to make the right calls, when the right calls needed to be made. And I have to say if one woman can master martial arts, two can do it and so can other females of any age worldwide. 

If you think about it: what are we waiting for? Let’s get the martial arts/self-defense training under your belt and then you go out into the world and change it permanently for the better. I have always thought it was wrong to tell a girl she can be anything she wants to be, without telling her about the need and the importance of studying martial arts for the rest of her life. We live in a world where there are boys not even born for another 100 years who will grow up to be gangbanging rapists if the paradigm does not change. If we don’t get millions of women trained in this system of self-defense and martial arts to convince male attackers in no uncertain terms to respect them, the world will just keep on dragging itself through the mud of violence, despair, regret,  and disappointment. Violence against women only happens because of the massive and quite pervasive brainwashing that goes on every day of women and girl’s lives. I would like for you when you finish reading this document to get you martial arts journal and list ten ways that our culture trains boys believe in their own invincibility and their total right to dominate females wherever they find them. This includes things that you hear from your family members and school friends and anywhere that poisonous snake rears its head up.

So to answer the question of why men think they are invincible against women, the answer is: how could they not think that way? How could boys grow up to be men and think any other way?   That’s the better question, when you think about it. It is a steady diet of the same old warmed up patriarchal venom that says the same old thing about girls and women. The “window dressing” may change from one TV program to the next but the song remains the same. The answer to all this mind control programing is to start because you will have to look for a long time to find a message out there, which articulates what  am telling you now.

It is like this for me: you own a house on fire and instead of notifying the fire house down the block about the fire, you try to legislate laws against houses catching fire. You organize marches that condemn houses that will burn. You forces with a neighbor’s house and band together when you and your neighbor’s house are forced to be alone all night in order to not catch fire. You  go to the Police department and get a protective order that says: a fire has to stay 500 feet away from your house, and yet you still don’t keep your house fire safe.

The answer to a house on fire is right down the block from you, with fire trucks, hoses, nozzles, gallons of stored water, pumper trucks that are gassed up and ready to come straight to your home. But there is far more than just that! You also have plenty of fire fighters who went to fire school , with college degrees in fire science and also have been continuously trained to fight fires and extinguish them  right down the block from you. But we as a society ignore the one thing, the only thing that can stop violence against women in its tracks and the large majority of us still don’t make that call, they don’t take that step to enter into a world that can and will make them safer than they are today. Putting out the fire though  is not in question here, its admitting you need help, you need training.

But can you fault women for that? Can you blame girls for that way of thinking? Of course not!  The reason is that there is a great big and quite effective machine out there that is in every fiber and thought of their lives that does not encourage women and girls to seek out self-defense to learn how to improve their ability of defending themselves, with their own bodies.  

When and where do women gather together to celebrate when one of them gets awarded her black belt? Where do teen-age girls meet to discuss the latest problem they are having with their front-kick, punch combination? When do parents knowingly start their daughter on super long-term martial arts training?   When do Dads or Moms, let’s forget about martial arts training for the moment, take their daughter and teach them how to fight? How many Moms or Dads physically teach and demand that their daughters become proficient at defending their own bodies? How many drills do parents put their girls through on a weekly basis about what to do to stay safe and get home safely?  How many parents talk to other parents about forming a self-defense group for their circle of daughters? How many parents teach their daughters the vulnerable spots on a man’s body and why it hurts the man to hit or kick them hard and fast in that particular spot? This is why girls grow up to be women who either have been or could be raped and murdered. These females don’t have a clue about executing a punch or finger jab to the eyeball. We live in a world where rape and the murder of a woman is a “known thing” and yet there is no notice of it in the halls of congress or the city’s halls of power. Oh, there is an occasional notice in the papers or the Internet about some body being found somewhere and notification that a serial rapists is on the loose, but nothing that changes the life of a rapist beyond perhaps, maybe being caught. 

The wise words that we get from the authorities are that the Police cannot do anything to a stalker until they do something physical to the female making the report. That should tell you all you need to know about the power that is available to be used by the girl or women in need of help. Few ever say this: hey, wait a minute since we know that some men rape women and girls and there is a perfectly good system available that I can learn how to protect myself, why don’t I learn it? And that is the real question that I wanted to place before you in the first place.  When you go to bed and your thoughts are really clear, ask yourself: “why don’t I learn martial arts and self-defense?